Why are we, human beings so complicated? The world would be a much better place if we could keep things simple.
I seem to be ending up with a lot of
unbearable weird people. I am still in dilemma on how to handle such people and the situation. 😐
The first kind. If they happen to come face to face with you in the corridor, cafeteria etc, they give the widest smile and are oh! so courteous! They inquire on your well-being and talk to you so well. But at times when catch sight of you from far, they pretend as if they haven’t seen you. They don’t even look at you and smile, let alone greeting you. If in the cubicle, they pretend as if they are totally involved in work. If you don’t wanna talk to me, then don’t!! It’s as simple as that. Why pretend?
The second kind. All that they know is to point out your faults. You do something right and they do not appreciate it, but when you do something wrong, they will be the first ones to point it out. They find something to dig at, even if things are right. The way I do things maybe different from the way you do it, that doesn’t make it wrong. In fact people should be open to learning something new all the time. I am tired of these kind of people. They totally drain out the positive energy in you and leave you with an unsatisfied feeling about a job, that you just thought you did fine. 😦
The third kind. The know-it-all kind. These people just HAVE to talk, whether they know something about the topic or not. If I don’t have my facts right, I generally don’t venture into any
argument discussion. But I have met people who have to prove that their point is right (i.e even if they are wrong). Why?? Pretentious people totally put me off! So many times I have the urge to say, “Stop it, will you?”
My life is sort of becoming a juggle with all these kind of people. No choice but to deal with it patiently. Patience, something that I lack.. 😐